Breonna Dull
Features Editor
College is a lot different than high school, so it can seem confusing at first. When I first arrived at Millersville in 2021, I had a lot to figure out. Now, in my fifth year of college, I’ve figured out how to embrace what Millersville has to offer. I hope these tips for incoming Freshmen, or any college student, help you transition into college life and find belonging at Millersville.
Give yourself grace
College is hard—balancing classes, clubs, work, and a personal life can be overwhelming. There’s no “right” way to do it. I’m graduating a year later than expected, but taking extra time allowed me to take fewer classes per semester, focus on each class, join clubs, and work part-time. I’ve had to withdraw from some classes and barely passed others. There were many assignments I didn’t feel were my best work and some I didn’t complete at all. I can get very frustrated with myself, but I accept the loss and carry on with a better attitude. Make an effort to submit excellent work, but also recognize that life happens. Learn, grow, and remind yourself you’re capable of great things.
Get comfortable being alone
You’ll spend a lot of time solo—walking to class, eating, studying, or visiting events. You can’t always have your friends by your side, and that’s okay. Going through my day independently is something I had to get used to in my adult life. You’re never the only one, you will see other students eating by themselves. Build confidence in yourself, and if you feel like it, ask to sit with someone else who’s alone.
Connect through socials
So, you’ve met someone on campus? Keep connections with your classmates by following them on social media. Simply ask for their socials before parting ways. It’s a casual way to keep in touch and can lead to friendships or study groups. I found it helpful to have classmates for assignments, reminders, or venting (you gotta let it out).
Find exclusive opportunities
Our campus offers so many resources and opportunities—most of which you won’t have after college. For example, all students have access to the gym, library, indoor pool, study spots on campus, the costume closet, and the food pantry. For academics or career concerns, we have the office career development, Handshake, advisors, and alumni to help you. Check the Corq app for daily events on campus to learn something new, meet people, eat free food, and have new experiences.
Plan for success
I’ve learned the hard way that time management is not optional. If you want to succeed, you have to make that possible. Write down all assignments, quizzes, and due dates for the week so you can visualize your workload. These lists help me keep organized and it’s rewarding to cross them off as I go. I struggle with procrastination, so I get it, that essay sounds like tomorrow’s problem. Remember that you don’t always need to complete your assignment in one sitting. Even if it’s only a few questions, it’s better to complete a part of your work than none at all. Do some work, then have a treat. It’s about balance.
Recharge and hydrate
Yes, have your morning coffee, but don’t forget to have food and water too. To fully recharge, you require both sleep and nutrition. Your body and mind will feel better all around when it has food to fuel your attention, energy, focus, and good mood. Carry a reusable water bottle on campus to stay hydrated and feel free to decorate with stickers! One of the best ways to refresh is by being outside. Because humans are a part of nature, our natural environment can regulate our nervous system and improve mental health. Take a break from indoors and electronics to admire the beauty on campus or explore the surrounding area’s forests, creeks, and wildlife.
In college, so many things are changing, including you! During these few years, step out of your comfort zone, learn new things, and meet new people. Not everything will go as planned, but that’s okay. Also, realize that you will not be perfect and you will make mistakes, but mistakes teach us how to succeed. Enjoy your first semester here and reach out for help when you need it!