I am in a classroom with three, four, and five-year olds. Believe it or not the maturity gap between a three-year-old and a five-year-old is very easy to observe. Another factor is that about twenty percent of the classroom are ELL’s (English Language Learners). The biggest problem in the classroom currently is having to share workspace and communicating effectively with each other. Some students being ELL’s have trouble effectively expressing their emotions when they are upset of discouraged with another student, therefore their way of showing that emotion is physically. It is inevitable that preschoolers get upset and don’t know how to handle their emotions, that is what preschool is for! However, the teacher noticed that this was a reoccurring problem, and she decided to implement different solutions to see which one would be the best fit for her classroom. This is only my third time at this specific placement; therefore, I am not only forming relationships with the students, but I am also observing how the teacher addresses problems, and what solutions she comes up with.

The questions I often ask myself in the classroom are, how big actually is the maturity gap between a typical five-year-old, and a typical three-year-old? And, what is the difficulty in an ELL student expressing their discouragement or any emotion at all?
When doing research on the two questions I had, I stumbled upon an interesting website that explains the difference between three-year-olds, four-year-olds, and five-year olds. The first thing I noticed was that most websites grouped three-year olds and four-year olds together, than five-year-olds were a separate category. The biggest common difference I found was that at three and four year old children have little to no impulse control. For instance, if they want a toy and someone else is playing with it, nothing is holding them back from grabbing the toy out of the other student’s hand. Also, at the three and four range children have a hard time solving conflicts. They don’t understand the difference between appropriate and inappropriate interactions. As the child gets to the five-year-old range they start to understand consequences and how interactions should be. At the five-year-old stage they started forming empathy, and the need to please people. It is not uncommon for a five-year-old to act irrational to please someone else. I believe that not knowing how to differ emotions is one of the biggest problems. It also makes sense that students aren’t able to share effectively in a preschool classroom.
Next I went on to find out more about ELL emotion in a preschool classroom. On a website titled “Social & Emotional Support for ELLs and Immigrant Students”, I found a lot of useful information. Such as, the fact that for most students that aren’t ELL they main concern is going to school and learning, but for ELL students they have to worry about moving to a different country, trying to fit in at a new school, and learn a new language. No wonder they act out often, I personally would too. It is a lot of stress on a child that doesn’t know how to manage stress yet. One solution that the website shares for sharing emotions is, “Emotion Flashcards”. These flashcards give pictures of children showing all emotions, an ELL can effectively communicate by simply pointing to one of the emotions. Being not only in a new school, but a new country is extremely stressful on any person, add a child that doesn’t have a good handle on their emotions yet and it is extremely likely you will be dealing with some emotional difficulties. It is our job as teachers to not only address the difficulties but also educate ourselves on effective ways to help ELL students.

Overall any preschool classroom you walk into will have their issues with sharing, and the simple answer to that problem is “it is okay.” It is not in the most of the children’s developmental stages yet, which means you aren’t being an unsuccessful teacher, you are just helping them continue of their long journey of development
Resources:
Jchaffer. (2019, December 5). Social & Emotional Support for ELLs and Immigrant Students. Retrieved from https://www.colorincolorado.org/teaching-ells/creating-welcoming-classroom/social-emotional-support-ells-and-immigrant-students
Preschooler (3-5 years old). (2019, November 7). Retrieved from https://www.cdc.gov/ncbddd/childdevelopment/positiveparenting/preschoolers.html