We Are Slaves To Social Media
by Ethan Ijumba
The amount of time we spend and use for the applications, feeds, and reports we receive from our technological devices is concerning. We live in a world of gratifications from likes, shares, and comments that allow us to feel a specific emotion that brings us joy based on the number of engagements we receive. This constant need for validation from others can be addictive and detrimental to our mental health. As a society, we’ve seen different perspectives on social media’s positive and negative uses and how they’ve shaped our cultural norms and cultivated our views and behaviors. Rather than viewing the negatives of social media, the positives are still evident to be noted. It’s still essential to be aware of the adverse effects of social media and technology on our mental health and well-being. Still, it’s equally important to recognize how they have shaped our society positively.
While social media presents what some may consider a negative impact, it has become a tool for educational purposes; institutions and organizations have utilized platforms such as YouTube and Instagram to share educational content and resources. It has also allowed the creation of careers such as remote-based jobs, influencers, streamers, and other careers that society can pursue if appropriately managed. Social media has provided a platform for education, career opportunities, and connectivity. It is up to us as individuals to find a healthy balance and use these tools to enhance our lives rather than detract from them. With that being said, our devices have also become methods not only to communicate but also to disassociate with others and refrain from building new connections and relationships in interpersonal situations. While the technology we possess has the potential to enhance our lives and connect us with others, it can also become a barrier to building new connections and relationships in interpersonal situations.
The technological devices we have for our use and disposal allow us to communicate with other members of the society we share. However, we’ve seen a social disconnect and divide that social media causes, whether it intends to bring us closer or further apart. However, it’s becoming increasingly common for us to see individuals and groups on their phones in ways that may or may not be productive. We spend hours each day consuming content that may not be meaningful or beneficial to our lives. These effects may be due to the constant need for validation and comparison on social media platforms, leading to feelings of loneliness and low self-esteem. Although it may be easier for some to create and build relationships with others on social media, the building of interpersonal skills is then lost in translation when it comes to solely using social media as a method of communication.
To those who use their devices for productive or work-related reasons, the constant bombardment of emails, updates, and messages makes it difficult to disconnect and recharge from social media handles. This can lead to burnout and stress, affecting physical and mental health. We must set boundaries and limits for our social media usage. The more we allow social media to consume our everyday lives, the more susceptible we become to the issues and dangers it presents. Harvard Business Review Senior Senior Associate Editor Kelsey Hansen dives further into how social media has addictive traits in her article, Our Social Media Addiction stating:
My social media use seemed harmless. But I soon noticed that my attention span and mental capacity were suffering. When trying to finish school assignments, I’d check Facebook repeatedly. Each day I spent hours scrolling through its pages. It got so bad that I had to temporarily deactivate my profile ahead of my final exams to eliminate temptation. But after they ended I was back at it. I remember how, during a weeklong trip I took with my family that summer, we had no computer access (this was before smartphones), and I kept thinking, I can’t wait to get home to check Facebook. I’ll have more notifications since I’ve been away. Most notifications I got were surface-level comments or passive “likes” that didn’t mean anything, yet it was so hard to stop checking them. (Hansen 2022)
With the constant need to feel that checking our phones will bring us feelings of happiness or joy, personal social media usage is something that we must evaluate and maintain a balance that allows us to advance by using social media mindfully and purposefully. By doing this, we can reap the benefits while minimizing the opportunity for negatives. Overall, it is crucial to recognize the impact of personal social media usage on our lives and find a balance. While social media can connect us to others and provide valuable information or entertainment, it can also lead to feelings of comparison, addiction, and a lack of presence at the moment.
References:
Anderson, Monica. “The Virtues and Downsides of Online Dating.” Pew Research Center: Internet, Science & Tech, Pew Research Center, 6 Feb. 2020, www.pewresearch.org/internet/2020/02/06/the-virtues-and-downsides-of-online-dating/.
“Our Social Media Addiction.” Harvard Business Review, 17 Oct. 2022, hbr.org/2022/11/our-social-media-addiction.